dm: gpio: add a default gpio xlate routine

Many drivers use a common form of offset + flags for device
tree nodes. e.g.:
	<&gpio1 2 GPIO_ACTIVE_LOW>

This patch adds a common implementation of this type of parsing
and calls it when a gpio driver doesn't supply its' own xlate
routine.

This will allow removal of the driver-specific versions in a
handful of drivers and simplify the addition of new drivers.

Signed-off-by: Eric Nelson <eric@nelint.com>
Reviewed-by: Stephen Warren <swarren@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Simon Glass <sjg@chromium.org>