musb-new: Use time based timeouts rather then cpu-cycles based timeouts

CPU cycle based timeouts are no good, because how long they use depends on
CPU speed. Instead use time based timeouts, and wait one second for a
device connection to show up (per the USB spec), and wait USB_TIMEOUT_MS
for various urbs to complete.

This fixes "usb start" taking for ever when no device is plugged into the
otg port.

Signed-off-by: Hans de Goede <hdegoede@redhat.com>